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One of the biggest blocks to moving forward and achieving your dreams is indecision, wavering on taking the leap, living with worry and procrastinating. People who aren’t living the life they truly want are often stuck in indecision and change their mind frequently. They say yes, no, and maybe over and over. They to come to any decision, so their life does not change.

Here are some reasons for why this happens and how to learn to fully decide!

Procrastination. We all know that procrastination is putting off what needed to be done yesterday until tomorrow. It is important to become aware of why you are procrastinating, instead of being unconscious to this behavior. If you have a big dream, but you constantly procrastinate taking action to achieve it, there in an opportunity for self-reflection. It is worth your time to investigate and understand why you are putting off the exact things you say you desire.

Self-doubt. Self-doubt is a cover-up emotion that shows up in the form of feeling apathetic, making excuses or justifications for the reason why something won’t work out right now. It can be disguised as envy, jealously, and criticizing yourself or others. Waiting for the perfect time, perfect body size or right amount of money to commit to something is really just about self-doubt. If you are filled with self-doubt, you just need more clarity to develop the internal self-confidence you need. When you diminish self-doubt, you can move forward and take action on your dreams.

Worry. Worry is one the biggest forms of distraction because it takes you out of the present moment and takes you into the future, the unknown, which is scary for most people. Worry is a form of fear and is just an illusion about something that may happen in the future. It is about trying to control a specific outcome. Worry blocks us from taking action in our present moment.

Here are some tips on what you can do today to fully decide.

Think about what you wish for and turn it into a decision.

Here is my example. I wish I could finish packing, moving and remodeling my new home this year. BECOMES I have decided to finish packing, moving and remodeling my new home this year.
The difference seems subtle but when it comes to manifesting our dreams, it is vitally important to clearly align our intentions with deliberate actions to make them a reality. Fully deciding rather than wishing is the key to making all of your dreams come true.

Say to yourself – ”I deserve this, I am worthy of it, and I am going to achieve it.”
There are no longer questions about how things are going to turn out, so your focus can shift from procrastination, self-doubt, or worry to taking action to make it happen. Instead of wishing the packing, moving and remodeling on the new home would be completed, I will find myself actually making it happen.

When you fully decide, you let the universe know you’re ready and it opens up the path to your success and shows you the way to achieve it.

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