I used to try and control circumstances and other people in my life.
I used to let people’s opinions of me dictate how I would feel.
I used to not know how to say no.
I used to define my worth with my year-end review in my corporate job.
I used to be afraid of being messy.
I used to worry about what people thought.
I used to live my life within a very small box.
I used to think that I wasn’t funny.
I used to believe that I would never fall in love again.
I used to say “I don’t know how” a lot.
I used to be intimidated hanging out with a lot of women.
I used to be afraid of speaking my truth.
I used to be paralyzing afraid of disappointing anyone.
I used to care a lot about wearing designer clothes.
I used to be perceived as aloof and hard to get to know.
I used to think that I was an extrovert.
I used to be a people pleaser.
I used to spend a lot of time feeling very uncomfortable.
I used to not know myself very well.
